"Life is a journey, and I have no clue where it's taking me, but I want to remember it."


Thursday, July 21, 2011

Girl From the Suburbs Goes To The County Fair (Lowville, Ny: Tuesday)

I would call myself a country girl at heart, though I didn’t grow up in the country (I just wish I did) but I’m not a city girl either (by no means!) I fall somewhere in between, the neither here nor there, the suburbs.

This past weekend one of my FLI classmates got married, the wedding was about two hours away from my house, so afterwards a bunch of the fellow FLI-ers came back to spend the weekend. We did everything we loved, shared deep philosophical discussions, light hearted joking, watched movies, and just enjoyed each others company.

All too soon it was time for everyone to leave. We said our “see ya later”’s and ended our time with prayer and a song of Holy, Holy, Holy.

But my time with some of these friends wasn’t over yet! I joined Meg and Katie in Katie's car and we made to drive to New York State. We spent the night at Katie's lovely apartment, met some of her friends and hung out. The next morning Meg and I loaded up the van, said goodbye to Katie, and set out for the final part of our journey.

No sooner had we hit the road, than we passed a small park. “Do you want to stop and swing?” Meg asked me. As if she needed to ask!

After our short adventure we once again were on the road, with one last stop at the mall so I could buy some new Teva sandals…and of course I ride on the carousel!

Then we finally arrived in Lowville New York! I watched out the window as we passed through the rolling hills covered in beautiful farmland. Hundreds of windmills dotted the landscape, waving hello.

We didn’t go straight to Meg’s house, rather we detoured to the library where she works (an adorable establishment!) then on to the county fair! Meg had told me so much about the fair, I was excited to be able to be there to see it!

We got there and went directly to the horse track, where we met up with Meg’s mom and brother, and then were spotted by a group of Meg's friends, and thus the whirlwind of introductions Meg was warning me about began!

We watched harness racing for a bit (something I’d never seen before) then decided to make a quick trip to the house to unload before the parade that night.

Note to self, I love this house! It’s a classic farmhouse, in the shade of many large trees, inside is just the right size (not too big, not too small) with many windows to let in the sunshine. Meg took me on a tour, showing me how the personalities and interests of her and her brothers are displayed so well in the way they decorate their rooms.

After a bit we headed back to the fair. We walked around a little, and hung out on the blanket spread in “their spot” and waited for the parade to start, marking the first day of the Lewis County Fair. Meg had bragged that the parade was “the best in the world”, and I was not disappointed. True, it was not Macy’s Thanksgiving parade, but I found so much more excitement and joy in the small, yet very long precession of tractors and pick up trucks, wagons and home made floats. As the different displays passed by, Meg and her friends and family gathered around would share stories of past parades, and they waved to and pointed out friends as they passed by.

After the long precession ended, we relocated to the football field in the middle of the tack where I was again introduced to many faces (sorry people if I don’t remember your name!) then we settled in for the show. It was a great fireworks show, the field was full of “oo!”s and “ahh!”s at all the proper times.

After the show, we headed back home, tired and ready for sleep. But I was excited to see what else this trip to the country would bring me, and I was refreshed by the small town community I was able to experience through the life of my friend.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Girl Camp 2011: The Story

Psalm 145:7

“everyone will share the story of Your wonderful goodness, they will sing with joy about Your righteousness.”

Last week was my week at home. After months that seemed like years I was finally at Camp! I was all geared up and ready to begin my seventh year counseling Girls Camp. This year the theme was “The Story”, each day we added another chapter to the story God had written in His word, and learned how to apply it to the stories He is writing for us.

Ok, ready for this? This is another one of those annoying posts when I’m all over the place and put in way more detail than I’m sure you care to sift through. But, if you know me at all, you know what to do (if not, please reacquaint yourself with the disclaimer in the “this is me” column to the right :-)

Cabin: Moose Lodge

This year I was co-counseling in Moose Lodge, which was one of the older cabins. I’m always a little apprehensive to be in this cabin, since the girls are older a lot of times I find it harder to reach out to them because they are with their friends all week, or they “know everything” already, or simply, they can act much more mature than me (sad, but true). But I was so blessed with this gaggle of girls! They were each so sweet and fun, and we had many a laugh.

My co-counselor was Sarah, coincidentally, when I was nine years old, and attending camp for the very first time, Sarah was my counselor! I was very bad that year, as were my friends, and we nearly drove Sarah insane (something I didn’t know till years later, I always remembered Sarah as one of my favorite counselors, and she has always been one of the counselors I try to imitate in my own counseling career!) so, it was very exciting to be counseling with her this year, and we had many stories to share with our girls of that terrible first year of camp :-)

Activity: Jump Ropes

Of course, what else? I think this was my fourth year working with the jump ropes, but this was my first year teaching it alone! I had helpers of course; basically I just needed someone with arms to swing the ropes. We had a great couple of classes (morning and afternoon). Our day would begin with stretches, which I quickly designated the responsibility over to Brittany, who helped me in the afternoon class. She was able to bring the energy required and make the stretches unique and fun. Then we would do our “endurances”, the girls would skip for two minutes to see how many jumps they could get, then we would do our “no skips” when the girls would see how many jumps they could get without tripping on their ropes. We kept track of each day to see how they improved.

Next we would move on and do a little bit with the single ropes, but the girls (and I) were anxious to get to the fun stuff: long rope, double dutch, egg beater, etc.

We had a rule on the jump rope court: the word “cant” was not allowed. The first day I wrote the word “cant” on the concreat and told them that if they said that word, I would banish them off the court, because I would hear none of it, and if they did use that word, they had to add two o’s to the end, I would write two o’s to the end of the word “cant” making it become “can too”. During the week, whenever a girl let “I cant do it” slip out, I would say “what was that you said?” and her eyes would get big and she’d say “I can too! Can too! Can too!” and they were extra watchful for when I would utter the forbidden word: “I can’t jump more then one jump in double dutch myself…” “You said cant! You said cant!” “Ok, I mean, it’s very hard for me, since I don’t have much practice.” :-)

We also had a tradition of saying hi to any staff member that passed. Since the court where we jumped was situated just between the kitchen, the staff dorms and the road, we could keep ourselves quite busy saying hello. Whenever we say a staff member passing by, we’d say “ok, lets say hi to Cora. One, two, three, HI CORA!” I did that because I wanted the girls to be familiar with who the staff is, and I think it worked :-)

Chapel:

Oooh chapel. Jon and Andrea are the couple who both lead the worship as well as do the teaching, and they are pretty much wonderful. Each service we began with counting down the minutes to start, followed by a morning stretch, and then the youtube dance “Double Dream Hands” (which was followed by the sequel “Double Dream Feet” later on in the week. Then we’d have an appearance of Andy Lovehandles (which was Jon dressed up) and a short game show segment where the girls answered ridiculous questions about celebrities. Then we’d get into our songs, which included everything from the beloved Boogaloo, to worship hymns, followed by a recitation of the Shma, then the teaching. As I said, the theme was “The Story”, and Jon and Andrea took us through an exciting and insightful journey starting from creation and ending with Jesus. So many times I found myself frantically scribbling notes, not so I could strike up conversation with the girls during devos, but because I was so impacted by the teaching!

Theme Dinners:

And of course, what's Girls Camp without your themed dinners?? This year we had our fill.

Pick Yer Color night was a monochromatic theme, everyone was to try to dress (as much as she could) in a single color. I was blue (because I was easy) and we even got our girls to line up in rainbow order for dinner (with me and Sarah in our proper places as well!)

There was also Stadium Night. The girls were to dress in sports jerseys or team spirit garb. Not being much of a sports fan, I wore my team shirt from Varsity camp (Go Hulk!) but I was sporting a rockin’ sweat band I’d found in the Pine Post! The staff was amazing this night! Walking around with cardboard vendor boxes slung around their necks calling “hot dogs, geeet your hot dogs!”

Crazy Hair Night!! My favorite! When I was born, God know that I would one day be a counselor, and He gave me the wonderful gift of built in, natural crazy hair! Shortly before dinner, I did something I only do about once a year, and that’s to brush my hair. And it got BIG! Some days I have a hard time dealing with my hair, but on crazy hair night, I’m in love with it! All the girls got into the night as well, you’ve never seen so many crooked pony tails, multicolored heads, or gelled up spikes!

Characters Welcome Dinner. Since the theme was “The Story”, the final dinner was character themed. The girls were to dress up as their favorite book, movie or video game character. I was SO excited, a few weeks before camp I found a bolt of fabric at JoAnnes, one of those ready made skirts where you just add the seam. And it was Fancy Nancy! My number one all time favorite children's book character and my hero! So I was all set to dress like her, with the skirt, some sequencey sparkly bows, a feather boa, and a shirt I had ironed on a bunch of jewels. Then, the night before we left I remembered, I was flying home early to attend a friends wedding, and would be in the air during the dinner!!! I was devastated! But I decided, whatever, I could still be Fancy Nancy, so on Friday morning I went to breakfast, feather boa and sparkly bows and all! And I wore my skirt all day, even during jump ropes! I was sad to miss the dinner though; I was excited to see all the characters. But my sister assured me that she’d gotten many pictures, so I can’t wait to see them!

This And That’s:

Ok, here’s the fun part, all the random little stories that may or may not make sense. Just the snippets of the week that make me smile :-)

The first day was the swim test. Last year I had swum out to the raft and hung out there to encourage the girls as the treaded water. This year I decided to do the same (despite the cold, coldness) I swam out with the first group, feigning indifference to the cold. I let the girls swim ahead of me a little bit, so that they wouldn't see me walk till the water reached my nose, then doggy paddle or swim on my back the rest of the way to the raft. Upon reaching the raft I climbed up and joined Matt and Tyler, the lifeguard and AO on duty, and chatted with the girls during the five minutes of treading. I hung out there as the first group swam away and watched and helped direct the second group swim in and around the raft. If any girls didn’t make it to the raft and had to be towed in by a lifeguard, I chatted with them while we waited for them to be picked up by the p-boat and brought back to shore. With every other group I’d swim back to the yellow area, then swim back out to the raft again with the next group. I think I ended up swimming out with about seven groups or so, which means I swam the distance between the raft and the yellow area about fourteen times. Meaning I had probably swam the equality of the length of the lake! (though of course, I would die if I actually tried, since I wouldn't have ten minute breaks in between!) and I think I more then earned my blue swim band (well, since I doggy paddled/back swam and didn’t tread, maybe not :-) but it was a good exercise, and I love doing that, since I know many of the girls already, I was able to give a name to the lifeguards when they were asking the girls if they were doing ok or needed help, and I was also able to get to know the girls I didn’t already know, especially when they would wait on the raft if they didn’t make it.

The second to last group to go held a few of my girls who’d made me promise to swim out with them for moral support. They weren’t too sure about the cold water, but I told them that we were arctic explorers, swimming out to explore this chunk of ice and observe the penguins! The deal was, the girls would swim out to the “ice” (the raft) and I would explore the ice for five minutes while they observed (aka, treaded water) then we would swim back. So we got out there, and I climbed up and told Matt and Tyler that we were arctic explorers here to observe the penguins, to which Matt informed me that “there are no penguins in the arctic, but there are polar bears.” “Ok”, I said, “then can you be polar bears?” “Sure,” he said. Then thought for a minute… “Wait - we’re the polar bears!?!” needless to say, the polar bears weren’t very active that day.

On the day of the swim test, I promised two of my girls that if they got blue bands, then I would attempt to take them out sailing. They did it! (though I had to heavily encourage one to keep on treading :-) so on Monday we bathing suited up, joined by another of my girls and Brittany, and we headed down to the beach, stood in line waiting for the lifeguards to start letting us peg in, got all our equipment (life jackets, rudders, center boards, kayak paddle for Amy) and headed into the water where we stood for about a half hour while I tried to figure out / remember how to set up first one sail boat then the other. FINALLY I had both boats set up, and was just untying them from the buoy’s ready to set sail, when Sarah came running up. “Are you coming or going!?” she asked, “we’re just not going” I told her. “well come back in, we have zip line today, I just found out and we only have ten minutes to get out there!” so, what took a half hour to set up, I pulled back down in five. We rushed out to the zip line with as many girls as we could find (we missed one :-( with plans of returning to the sails the next day. Of course the following day ended out sweltering hot phase and in swept the cold! We never did get back out, sadly.

On one of the days when it was still VERY hot, we were trying to encourage the girls to drink more water and stay hydrated. The girls at my table were chugging the pitcher of water, and somehow we began trying to drink more and more. At one point, Cora passed by and told us that at JV the week before; she had refilled a boy’s cabins water pitcher five times. The competition was on…and we were going for SIX! We drove Shelby (our server that day) crazy! She started bringing us out two pitchers at a time, and we were chugging as much as we could. At the end of the meal we finally sipped the last of our sixth pitcher. That equals a full pitcher per person at the table. We congratulated each other, thanked Shelby…then headed for the bathroom.

Wednesday was supposed to be our day out. We were supposed to go to Au Train Beach, but due to the appearance of bad weather, it was decided that we would stay on home base and carry on as usual. But we still wanted to do something fun for dinner, so the staff quickly pulled out the cardboard cut outs of jungle animals used for the African safari at Family Camp last summer, and quickly transformed the Bear Trail into a jungle. Shortly before dinner was to start, I found Sarah sitting on a picnic table chatting with some of our girls. I’m not sure how it happened, but somehow we both started talking about the safari that was to come, only we were talking about the Malibu safari, and how we had to put on our hiking stilettos, and how we didn’t want to chip a nail. All with bratty, valley girl accents. This continued the rest of the night, we talked about how we were hoping to catch a pink alligator so we could have a pink alligator bag, and how we needed our sparkling mineral water, and (best of all!) the new diet we were trying: we weren’t vegetarians, we just couldn’t eat anything with a face, so we only ate fish (which of course don’t have faces) and Amish Faceless chicken. I think we got on the nerves of the staff juuust a little bit, but the girls seemed to love it :-) we finally put a stop to it when we pretended to leave and then acted like we had no clue what the girls were talking about :-)

Waking up campers is my morning coffee, it makes me energized and happy in the morning. Waking up the girls has always been one of my favorite things to do as a counselor (much of which I’d learned from Sarah my first year). since I am not a morning person, I find a sense of sweet revenge on my former counselors (ahem, Sarah) by waking up my own girls in the most obnoxious ways possible. However, due to the fact that my girls were older, they always requested that we wake them up at seven when we headed out to our counselor meeting, meaning that by the time we got back at eight (the normal time to wake up the campers) everyone was wide awake, showered, and ready for food. Tears! However, one day Sarah and I were late for the meeting (thanks to a rogue alarm clock situation) so we didn’t have a chance to wake the girls up before the meeting, which meant (mwahaha) they were all mine! (Sarah saved them for me, knowing I would enjoy the experience).

After the meeting I raced back to the cabin, and tip-toed into the counselors room, hooked my ipod up to my speakers, did a quick song search, turned up the volume and headed to the bunks of blissfully snoozing campers. I began blasting “Hello Sunshine” by BarlowGirl, singing along and too-happily announcing that it was morning! I went from bunk to bunk, rousing the girls and being just obnoxious. Most started to stir by the time I’d turned on the second morning song, “Sunshine Girl” (Britt Nicole) and I got many an evil glair as I shouted at the top of my lungs the line, “I CAN BE THE QUIET ONE!!” then whispered “or the life of the party.” But then, that wasn’t working for a few in the back room, so I decided desperate times called for desperate measures. So I left the room so I could scroll through my songs till I found the one I was looking for. Ah, there it was, I knew I’d struck gold. I clicked play, let the first notes ring through the cabin: “oh-oh-oh-oh-oh. Oh-oh-oh-whoa-whoa” then: “I know ya love me, I know ya care, just shout whenever, and I’ll be there. you want my love, you want my heart, and we will never, ever, ever be apart…” and before the Bieb’s could croon the words “baby, baby, baby oooooh!” the snoozing girls were out of their beds and across the cabin, begging me on their knees to turn it off! I had found my weapon.

The next morning, before doing anything else, I snuck up to Alex’s bunk (for she had been the loudest about her dislike for my morning tactics) I held my speakers to her unsuspecting ear, and clicked play. Justin Bieber is a wonderful alarm clock.

The girls later came to me with verses about joy and laughter saying they had found them for me, since I was so joyful to wake them up in the morning. (wasn’t quite sure how to take that).

The last day, I decided to get up at six to see the sunrise (my camp tradition). After my alarm went off I was laying in bed for just a minute before pulling myself out, when I heard an alarm go off somewhere else in the cabin. I thought it was odd, but it was soon turned off, so I didn’t give it a second thought, and I tip-toed out of the cabin.

Later that morning however, I was swarmed by the whole cabin, they were asking why I had to go and get up so early on my last morning! Turns out they’d had it all planed out to wake up at six, plug my speakers into Alyssa’s ipod, and wake me up to Taylor Swift in my ear! I’m almost sorry I missed it…almost.

Later that day, two of my girls got packages. The camp tradition is to sing for your package (a rule that’s become optional at Girls Camp). These girls were adamant they were not going to sing, but I convinced them, promising to sing with them. We got up in front of the dinning hall, and Alyssa invited everyone to sing along “since I’m sure you know the words.” And I announced that this was a song dedicated to “Moose Mornings.” And we launched into the chorus of “Baby”. Surprisingly we weren’t booed off, though I think the fact that the staff guys started singing along as the rattled the silverware baskets may have helped.

It was a wonderful week full of blessings, memories and adventures. I loved my girls, whether they were in my cabin or not, and God worked in my own life through them and others at the camp in so many ways that I cant even explain or hope to make sense of. So many of our devos I felt as if the girls were teaching me way more than I could hope to teach them, and they reminded me that the faith of a child is a beautiful thing, and how much I long to have that simple, innocent and lovely faith. The fire they had in their hearts to tell their friends and family the story of God was so inspiring and encouraging, they didn’t let fear get in the way, but were just hungry to know more. And as much as I can love on those girls every day, they turn around and love on me with such an unselfish, unjudged love. They teach me more then I’ll ever even know, and I’m thankful for every moment God gives me with them.

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Dancing Through Life

Tonight I went dancing. I found a dancing hall not too far from me that offered what they call “Saturday Night Dance Parties”, each week beginning the night out with an hour long dance lesson in a different form of dance, followed by open floor dancing. I’d called several weeks ago to ask about it, and found out (as I suspected) it is a club made up of mostly elderly people, but of course youngers are welcome! So, this week when I saw that the theme was Swing, I decided to try it out.

I enjoyed it quite a lot! Yes, besides someone’s younger grandchildren I was the youngest in the place by at least twenty years, and yes, the music and dancing was expectedly on the slower level (which is not a bad thing for my two left feet!) but the atmosphere was so welcoming and enjoyable!

During the lesson time, as we switched partners every few minutes, I was able to become more comfortable with the other dancers, even talking the little nine year old boy into trying out a few steps with me! Then, the lesson ended, the lights were dimmed, and the real dancing began!

I retreated to my corner table, taking a drink of water, pretending to check my phone (ha! Who am I kidding? I never have any messages!) Thinking to myself “how long should I sit here smiling like a fool before I politely slip out?” Ya know, the usual wall flower routine. Having come alone I had no expectations of anyone dancing with me, but I didn’t want to just rush out!

However, I didn’t sit long before one of the older gentlemen asked me to dance. I warned him that I knew next to nothing, but he assured me he would show me. After that I never sat for long! As each new song began another gentleman would come up, ask me if I knew the step (of course I didn’t) and offered me his hand assuring me it wasn’t hard. (Well, not hard if you’ve got rhythm, something I seem to lack!) It was a delightful evening and I hope to talk someone into coming with me next time (so if your interested, lemme know!)

But, being there made me think of two things: first, how much I dearly miss FLI and the many, many dance parties we shared (where two or more are gathered there shall be dancing!) and second, how I love the way that dancing is a metaphor of life. When we first arrived for the lesson, the instructor asked us ladies a multiple choice question: if, at any point during the night, our partner is off beat, or stepping incorrectly, do we the ladies:

A: Slap him across the face and say, “that’s not right! Let me show you how it’s done!”

B: Gently say “Honey, don’t you hear the instructors voice in your head counting off? Do you need me to count out loud for you?”

C: Just follow his lead, whatever or wherever it may be.

Hmm, kind of like in life? If a mans dance partner is constantly pointing out his flaws in a negative way, do you think he’ll want to improve, or enjoy the dance? And if a woman keeps trying to take the lead by telling him what to do, she’ll miss out on the surprise spins and dips! There's nothing like a man who’s confident in his dance, and I’m glad that I’m a girl when it comes to dancing, because whether I know the steps of not doesn’t matter, if my partner is at least confident enough to lead (whether he knows the steps or not) then I have nothing to worry about. (Or, at least, much less to worry about!)

Now, basically, take the above paragraph and swap the words “dance” with “life”.

And that’s how I see life (and dancing, whichever :-)

This was the last time I've been Swing dancing, my FLI classmates, Dusten and Katie taught a bunch of us while we were out in Colorado...I had to be the man due to our small number of boys, but I couldnt help but have fun with such a lovely partner as Miss Bri! (and yeah, I am glowering at the camera :-)

Monday, June 27, 2011

Be Green – $ave Green

Recycle. It’s a word I try to avoid because of the negative connotations attached. But truly, I use this idea every day, in ways that excite me even! (who knew?) Coming from a crafty family, my mom, sister and I are wizes at coming up with ways to use the old and “useless” and turn it into something desirable and handy. My sister, Emmy, is creating quite the fashionable wardrobe out of old t-shirts. She cuts them up and sews them back together to create hip and trendy shirts, skirts, bags, scarves, you name it! My mom, the reigning queen of kids crafts is always finding new ways to use scraps to create something easy and cute. Plus, she’s always got a new idea up her sleeve to make life easier (like the pop bottle stink bug catchers!). And then there are my brothers! Do you know the hours they will spend with one simple cardboard box? “This side is a space ship, this side is a race car, this side is an airplane…hey! Pass the markers! I’m going to turn this side into a hot air balloon!”

And of course I can’t forget the inspiration of the children's librarian I used to work under! Marge has the most creative mind when it comes to recycling packaging, bookmarks, Tupperware…I’ve never seen her throw anything out before trying to make it something useful first. And the children's room has become a unique and beautiful place because of her. Whether it’s the paper-chain made of old book marks bordering the whole room, the trash bag filled with packing paper snowman in the corner, or the home made rattles and drums the kids play during story time, every piece of “junk” has a home!

So now I’m thinking, how many things do I recycle without even thinking? Well, for one thing, my closet is busting with all the great finds I discover at all the thrift stores I just cant stay away from. Give me a piece of string and I’m sure to find a use for it. And yeah Mom! I’ll find a use for all the shiny candy wrappers somehow!

So what do you recycle without even realizing it? God created such complex and beautiful imaginations within us, how do you exercise yours? Here’s a fun idea: get a bunch of kids together and throw in a pile of “junk”. Assign the kids with a challenge, to build something useful, or some kind of sculpture (castle, person, replica of a national monument, whatever) then have at it! I’ll bet ya once you let your imagination take off, you’ll be surprised at what you can recycle too!

Also, now that you’re through reading my wise words on the simplicity of being green, please click on this link: http://www.castleink.com/ by clicking you’re helping me save some green and potentially win a scholarship of $2,500! So PLEASE help me and click through, then send it on to all your friends and ask them to click through as well!

(This snowman is made entirely out of recycled items, we also had a spider made out of similar materials that hung in the window at Halloween!)




Saturday, June 18, 2011

A Conversation Between My Heart And My Head:

Heart: Oh, I long to be there

Head: Where?

Heart: At Camp, where else? Eye’s keep seeing people update their status’s about heading up there, it breaks me knowing we’re not there.

Head: Oh come on, don’t start that again. You know why we cant be there. We need to save up money in order to pay for our future, the future you decided on I might remind you.

Heart: We decided on, you agreed to it remember? You said that it may not be the most logical decision, but it at least makes sense.

Head: Well, that doesn’t mean we can just throw caution to the wind and flit from place to place. We need to focus on the task at hand.

Heart: Sigh, I know, but don’t you just wish we could jump on a plane and fly up there and spend all summer there again?

Head: We did that last year.

Heart: And it was life changing! Why not again this summer?

Head: You know why, you can sweet talk me all you want, but I wont bend, besides, you know perfectly well how expensive plane tickets are.

Heart: Then lets walk!

Head: Oh, now you're talking…I can just see it “hey we’re here! Lets go summer 2015!”

Heart: It wouldn't take that long…would it?

Head: Just about.

Heart: Humph, you take all the fun out of life.

Head: That may be, but you certainly find ways to bring it back again. I’m having less and less say these days.

Heart: You are not, you have just as much say as ever, more even, I’m just ignoring you.

Head: Oh, that makes me feel useful.

Heart: You are useful, if you didn’t stop me from following every whim, well, lets just say it wouldn't be pretty. But it’d sure be fun while it lasted!

Head: But you just have to remember that even though this time seems long and mundane, we’re staying busy preparing for the fun and exciting stuff to come. We have to choose wisely.

Heart: Yeah, I know…and jumping on a plane to Camp isn’t the wise thing.

Head: Not right now it isn’t. But soon, I promise, we’ll be there sooner then you think. Then we can both rejoice together!

Heart: You're right…Hey, do you have a band-aid?

Head: Why do you need a band-aid?

Heart: Because I’m a little bit broken right now.

Head: It’s ok, a little bit broken is good for growth…besides, in the meantime we can do the thing we do best together.

Heart: What's that?

Head: Dream.



Sunday, June 12, 2011

A Michigan Kind’a Week | Part 3 | Saturday and Sunday

Saturday: Library | Bridge | Biggby | Wilson Park | Ice Cream Truck | Open House | Family Party

Another big day! Started out with me and Emmy making a trip to the library. Some people laughed at the thought that I would want to visit my old work place, but I just laugh at them, because I LOVE my library and my great co workers! We checked out Patrick the Page’s Eagle Scout Project. Patrick is the page that was hired after I left, and for his project he built colored peg boards at the end of all the shelves to hang books or announcements off of! Very well done!

We also visited with Bill and Karen and Marge, and of course said our hellos to the fish!

After that we made a trip to Biggby coffee shop (yet another “Michigan Only” that is a must in life) and then a quick trip to check out the bridge that was being rebuilt right off our old neighborhood. It was GONE!! A bridge that had been there our whole lives, that we had walked over, under and spit off of. Gone.

After we snapped a few pictures we had a 1:00 meeting with two beautiful young ladies, Taylor and Alyssa. Last year, when Emmy and I were counseling at Girls Camp, we were talking about hor God moved us from Mt. Clemens Michigan to Aberdeen Maryland. All of a sudden two of our girls, Taylor and Alyssa announce that THEY lived in Mt. Clemens!! I couldn’t believe that I finally had campers who lived near me and I had moved!

But, it was wonderful to be able to spend time with them this trip. Emmy and I got to the park we were meeting at a few minutes early, and promptly took off like little kids. “wow! They have a zip line! Oh look! A rolly slide! What's this pedal thingy? Hey! Look at this! Why didn’t we ever come here? This park has EVERYTHING!!”

Before long (and after several trips across the zip and down the fun slide) we saw Alyssa round the corner, and we ran to greet her. We caught up with her life, which has gone through a lot of changes in the last year, then we began to wonder where Taylor had gotten herself to. it was a good half hour after 1:00, and I knew she knew the time and place because I had talked to her the night before. Alyssa called her and turns out the girl had lost track of time, but was on her way!

Fifteen minutes later she arrived and the rest of the afternoon was a wirlwind of playing games on the jungle gym, talking, Alyssa running home to get something to drink and us hiding from her when she got back, and just having fun. At one point we heard the ice cream truck coming. Emmy looked at me and said “Ash! Do you have money!?” I said “YES! Taylor! Run and stop that truck!” Taylor took off and waved the truck into the parking lot, then came running back “why did I stop it?” she asked. “Because we’re getting ice cream!” I told her as we made our way to the musical truck. We all picked out our flavors and chatted with the lady. Before we let her leave I asked to get a picture of the girls in front of her truck. She excitedly agreed and told us her name saying “find me on Facebook and tag me in the picture! I don’t have any pictures of my and my truck and I want to show my grandkids!”

We enjoyed our ice cream as we sat on the teeter totter, singing all the Girls Camp songs we could remember, until Taylors brother came to pick her up. Then Alyssa made her way home and Emmy and I left as well, happy to have been blessed with such beautiful company!

By the time we got back on the road, it was only a half hour before we had to be back at Grandma’s for a family party. But there was a grad party Emmy wanted to stop in at, just long enough to say hello and good bye, so we did, which put us getting back right on time for the first of our aunts, uncles and cousins to arrive.

The rest of the night was spent hanging out and discussing life and reconnecting with our extended family.

Sunday: Church

So begins our last day in the “Gan”. We woke up and packed the car as much as we could, then headed out to church. It was great to be among our home church again, seeing how everyone has grown and nothing has changed (sometimes it really is a good thing :-)

My favorite moment was when Kathryn (8?) and Maddie (6?) came in. I hadn’t seen them since I moved a year ago, and when they saw me they both yelled “ASHLEY!!!” and ran to give me the biggest hugs! Maddie excitedly said “we haven’t seen you in WEEKS!” I laughingly informed her that it had been a WHOLE YEAR!

After the break we hung out, and caught up. Then as the second service started I ran around the small gym (we meet in a school gym in folding chairs) and hugged everyone, telling them that we were leaving right after announcements.

As the second service began I sat myself down next to Jessie and was excited to see that Mr. Brad was leading singing. After a song or two Mr. Mike asked the four graduates to come up to be recognized and receive a gift.

Then it was time to go even before Mr. Bill got up to preach. I hugged Jessie and got up, waving to people as I passed and sprinted down the hall to the Sunday school where Jeanie was leading the kids in singing. I hugged each of them while they finished up the song, told Kathryn to write me and left them to go hug my sister, who was staying in Michigan to head up to Camp later in the week.

Then we got in the car and went back to Grandma’s, where we left Mom, who was staying a few days extra to stay with Grandma LeRoux while she had surgery.

Then I was left the sole girl to drive the ten hours back with Dad and my brothers. Another trip over, hoping to return soon.

A Michigan Kind’a Week | Part 2 | Friday...(Partyin' Partyin' YEAH!))

Friday: Macomb | Partridge | Pedicure | Graduation | Reception | Sisterhood

Whoo! Big day! It started out with me visiting Macomb Community College (the college I was at before Focus) and discussing my options with a counselor there. one of my options was to go back there, or even the community college in MD, since I only need a few more classes to finish up my associates degree. But if my Focus credits transfer, then I may be a college graduate right now! So we’ll see what happens there.

After a quick walk across campus to peek into my old sociology classroom (my favorite class :-) I was picked up by my forever best friend Jessie, and we took of for our favorite hang out place, Partridge Creek outdoor mall. However, it was starting to rain and we only had one umbrella (Jess said she didn’t even think to bring another, since I ALWAYS have an umbrella, one of my favorite things) so we made a quick trip to Wal-Mart down the street so I could get a ceap but cute umbrella. Unfortunately by the time we got back to Partridge the rain was letting up, but we still enjoyed a few minutes of gentle down pour, just enough to have a pleasant walk in the rain between popping in and out of shops and pretending we were rich.

After about two hours, I had jess drive me to the corner of Garfield and 16 Mile, where we waited for Grandma Padgett and Emmy to come pick me up for a pedicure (Grandma’s treat :-) We met Aunt Maureen there and had a great time being pampered. I’d never had a pedicure before, so it was quite an experience.

After our toes were properly colorafied, we went home to Grandma’s where Dad had flown in sometime that morning, and we all got ready to leave for the graduation!

Around 5:00, we headed over to the church where the graduation would be. Emmy, the graduate went back to the green room to hang out with her friends, while the rest of us mingled, reconnecting with people. I was given the task by Emmy and Heather to sneak the boquets that Grandma was bringing for Emmy and Heather to give to their moms on stage. I had to get them under the marked seats when the flowers arrived. Unfortunately by the time Grandma arrived, the moms were already in the sanctuary! There was no way for me to get the flowers up under the seats without ruining the surprise for Mom. Of course Heathers mom wouldn't know, but Mom would surly see me on stage with flowers and know what was up. Just as I was considering this dilemma, I felt a tap on my shoulder. I turned around to see Crystal! One of my own fellow graduates and friend! “Can you believe it was only three years ago that we were up there?” she asked after we hugged. I agreed, then quickly asked her, “Crystal, can you do me a favor? I need to get these flowers on stage but I don’t want my mom to see. Could you put them under the seats for Padgett and Gonzalez for me?” of course she agreed, and I hung back while she snuck on stage to do the deed, after which I ran up to her and thanked her. What perfect timing!

Finally it was time for the graduation to start, we all gathered in our seats and watched as the graduates slowly made their way to the front of the sanctuary. A few people made a few speeches. Jessie and I laughed to hear the same exact speech from the master of ceremonies, I even leaned over to Jess and quoted our favorite part seconds before him: “what planet are you from?” (it helps that I’ve heard him tell the same story of being introduced to the concept of home schooling for the past four years!)

Then the fun part began. A home school graduation is a very unique and personal ceremony. We had about forty high school grads; in the first several rows of the sanctuary are their parents. Alphabetically, each student is called to the front of the stage, where they are met by their parents. at this point if the grads had flowers for their mom or vice versa, they were exchanged. Then the father has two minutes to give a short speech about their child, and then the grad is presented with the diploma.

Before long it was Emmy’s turn. When she handed the flowers to Mom, Dad sarcastically asked “where’s mine?” to which Emmy quickly replied “you didn’t do anything.” It was a quiet exchange but spoke well of the personalities on that stage representing the Padgett Family. Dad gave a nice speech, which I don’t remember but know was funny, during which Emmy rolled her eyes and shook her head at the proper times, not in a disrespectful way, but just in a “I cant believe you said that!” way. Diploma was given, and all three returned to their seats.

After the ceremony was finished, the grad again walked down the aisle to line up along both sides of the reception room to greet their guests. The reception room is WAY small and there are always a WAY lot of people. Sometimes it can get ridiculous and claustrophobic with so many bodies, but I love it. I am an extrovert (as if you didn’t know!) and I get my energy from people. So a room jam PACKED with people, especially when it’s mostly people I know well, is basically like plugging me into an electrical socket and flipping the “on” switch. I was especially hyped because most of these people were some of my favorite in the world, and who I hadn’t seen in a long time. I flitted from person to person, dragging people with me to meet people, even introducing people who already knew each other, just for the fun of it (at one point I even introduced Jessie to her own dad and sister. Hey! Why not?) then I started a club. Sprinkled across all the tables were gold and purple graduation hat shaped confetti. Now, if you have ever seen me somewhere with shaped confetti or sequence, then you know that I will at some point be sticking the confetti to my face. So of course I did so, and then encouraged my friends to do likewise. After about 7 of us had done so, I deemed us the “Sisterhood of the Sacred Sequence.” (though we didn’t quite tell Tommy the name we’d chosen). We even made up a secret handshake! My friends took off at pretty soon we found people I didn’t even know who had been convinced to join the sisterhood (boys and girls alike). Of course I used my “Woo” strength to talk a few people into following the peer pressure and join the sisterhood. One little four year old girl, Emma, became our top member as she stuck dozens of pieces of sequence on her face!

Mmhm, I love doing crazy “immature” things and making it fun for everyone and just loving being insane :-)

Oh, and congratulations graduates!